*Building Better Boundaries* Why boundaries are important in a relationship? You ≠ Your Partn...
*Building Better Boundaries* Why boundaries are important in a relationship? You ≠ Your Partner This is a simple fact but rarely been accepted. Because the version of love that we have been handed over from society, religion, movies talk about "love is becoming one" But you and y
*Building Better Boundaries* Why boundaries are important in a relationship? You ≠ Your Partner This is a simple fact but rarely been accepted. Because the version of love that we have been handed over from society, religion, movies talk about "love is becoming one" But you and your partner never become "the one" You two still remain two - Two different dreams - Two different set of challenges - Two different pasts + baggage Navigating this difference is a big challenge. That is why *most couples struggle* after initial hormonal rush/ honeymoon phase. Because our default is "to keep things simple, we want to push the other person into our story, our world, our values, our challenges" but relationship is not "me" relationship is "us" where me has to accommodate another me and that's challenging but boundaries help us overcome that challenge *Healthy Boundaries safeguard me + we* Learn the art of healthy boundaries in my upcoming in-person workshop on 31st May, Near Auroville